“In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God….Who then is the one who condemns? No one. Christ Jesus who died-more than that, who was raised to life-is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us.” Romans 8:26-34
Dear Jesus, All my life I’ve been annoyed to know that others were talking about me. I remember in grade school when I realized that the girls among my classmates talked about everyone and everything about everyone including myself. I remember overhearing my parents, my educators, my friends, my enemies and even my pastors talking about me. For years it drove me crazy that I could not control the diatribe and reputation that others created for me based on a limited understanding of what made me tick. It seemed so unfair and undisciplined, and a tool of the devil. I know Jesus that I overreact to this because of my sinfulness. Thank you for being forgiving and patient with me. I’m deeply comforted to know that although I suffer here with people talking about me, that you and the Holy Spirit are talking about me to the heavenly Father. That’s what counts with me now. It’s not what people say to people that matters so much. It’s what you three say to each other about me that counts for me. Your word assures me; the Holy Spirit seeks help for me when he talks to the Father about me. You seek my pardon and forgiveness when you talk to the Father about me. I choose to focus on what you three are saying about me to each other rather than concern myself with the words of fallible mortals. Amen.
It doesn’t matter what people are saying to people about you as much as it matters what God is saying to God about you.